There, the black guy is nearly always the top. But it seems like there’s extra pressure to be a top if you’re black.īut you wouldn’t know it if you saw most interracial gay porn. If there’s one thing all bottoms know it’s that tops can be pretty freaking scarce, so it’s always great to find one when you do. We could have still sucked each others dicks, but whatever. He tells me he’s a bottom and I tell him I’m one, too, and the whole thing pretty much dies right there. Five minutes later out comes the question: “So, are you a bottom or a top?” This is all pretty normal until he says he thinks I’m a top because black guys are always tops. I tell him I don’t have one and the flirtation keeps coming. I live in Toronto and was at a bar recently when this guy comes up to me and tells me how beautiful I am. It always surprises me when I chat with a white guy in a bar or online and he automatically assumes I’m a top. I’ve topped before and I just don’t like it. Every time I’ve been attracted to a guy my thinking has always been, “Damn! I want him to put his D in me!,” not the other way around.
I’m not verse, I’m not bottom-verse or verse-bottom.